The New York Experience

October 9, 2015

Yesterday was the first day of New York. I joined my family at about 11 pm on Thursday night. After the flight my mom was waiting at baggage claim for me, and the hug I received is believed to be the biggest yet. We started our day quite a bit earlier than I usually do in my dorm at home in Mankato. This means about 9 o’clock. Although we are visiting New York for the weekend, we are staying at a farm that reminds me much of our home in Alexandria. There are ponies, goats, sheep, chicken, a donkey and wild deer there. We left the farm and made our way, about an hour and a half drive, to New York City. After driving in the city for about 20 minutes looking for a parking spot, my mom was stressing out and in need of someone to take over the wheel. At a stoplight that was backed up my parent’s switched spots and my dad then got us to a parking ramp with only a few close calls. Immediately after walking out of the parking ramp we experienced New York City. There were bus services all around us that wanted to sell us the “best” tour around, and notifying us that “all the other ones are scams”. Being my dad has a short fuse of patients and we intended on getting a bus tour anyway, he didn’t hesitate to say yes to the first man who talked to us. Other than the bus tours, there were people dressed up as characters from the boys favorite shows asking to take pictures with tip jars strapped around them. While my dad was figuring out how exactly the tour worked that he had just bought, we got on the bus to see it first hand. Our tour guide, cheesy and annoying, showed us around the city. We saw Uptown, Downtown, Midtown, Soho, China town, Time Square, Madison Garden Center, Statue of Liberty, The Empire state building and just about anything more that you could imagine. After the tour, my dad was eager to teach us all about the One World Trade Center. We went there with good intentions of learning, and although we did that, I think a few of us left light headed and ready for some food. Out of all places in New York to grab some food, the choice was made to eat at T.G.I. Fridays. Shortly after, we found ourselves back on the tour bus to make our way to Times Square. On our way there, a downpour happened. Although we were given plastic ponchos, I think it’s safe to say we all ended up rather wet and cold. As my dad says though, McCleary’s don’t quit. We kept going until the end of the day. My sisters, mom and I enjoyed shopping at Forever 21 as that is all we had time for due to the 4 floors. We intend on doing some more shopping tomorrow. We left NYC for the day and I was exhausted. Not only did we get up earlier than usual for me, I did not get to take my typical 2/3 naps a day. Falling asleep in the car has never been so comfy. Although I miss my friends and boyfriend at home, this trip with my family is much needed and I am so lucky to have the opportunity to see all of them in a beautiful city for the weekend.

Amanda

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Letting Go

September 29, 2015

Yesterday, we woke up in Illinois and drove to Ohio.  It was a nice drive and we stopped in Indiana at the Sand Dunes and walked to a beach on Lake Michigan.  It was windy and the locals said that it was the best waves they had ever seen on the lake.  We have seen so many amazing things on this trip.  Our creator God is totally amazing.  There really are not any words or pictures that could describe the beauty that this county holds.  Yesterday were able to see Chicago from a new perspective.  From a distance.  It looked much different than it did as compared to being in the heart of the city.

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And that is where my heart is today.  Perspective give so much to a situation.  I didn’t know what to expect as we set out on this adventure.  I wasn’t sure how my kids would do.  I wasn’t sure how Ryan would do.  I wasn’t sure how I would do.  But, I knew this was a journey that we were to embrace and embark upon.

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As the seven of us live together in an RV we are learning to love well.  I see my own faults come out.  I see when I get frustrated with situations and lean toward taking the frustration out on one of the kids or Ryan.  Maybe it’s because no-one can really escape.  At home we can run to our rooms with hurt hearts.  Here, our hearts are more exposed when they are hurt.

I’m learning to let go of some things.  I like things tidy and neat.  That is hard to accomplish that to my standard while living in an RV with seven people.   And there are so many things I miss.   I miss my college kids who are working hard at school in MN.  I miss family.  I miss friends.  I miss doing church and the fellowship that we have at our church.  I miss my bed and my bathroom.  I miss my washing machine.  I miss my friend who cuts and colors my hair.

Letting go.  Ryan told me to sit on his shoulders while we were in the beach yesterday.  If you know me, you might know that my first response was “No… I can’t do that; you can’t hold me…” Excuses.  He gently encouraged me.  I did it.  Grace snapped a picture.  Letting go is a good thing to do.  Living in community is a good thing to do.

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I am so thankful for this time with my family.  I am thankful for this opportunity to grow in my marriage with Ryan and in relationship with my kiddos.  I am thankful to do life from a different perspective and am learning so much doing it.  I have a pretty amazing group of people to do life with.

Rachael

“And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.” Colossians 3:15